From dated statistics, and from general anecdotes, a lot of the swingers I've spoken to have entered the lifestyle because the male half of the partnership expressed an interest in swinging. I know this isn't universal, I know there are some couples who've entered the lifestyle through the female initiative, but I'd like to hear from them today.
Are you a lady who thought: that's what I want! Are you a wife who first broached the subject? As always, I'd love to hear from you, whether it's as a comment, or if you want to drop me a private mail to firstname.lastname@example.org I'm anxious to know how you approached the subject, what reactions you expected and what response you eventually got.